Love is something beyond our understanding and limits. It is not just some feelings but it is life and the way of living. With the right person, one can improve himself and grow and with a wrong person, vice versa. It is the sweetest feeling but we feel different in different kinds of love such as partner’s love, parent’s love, friend’s love, etc. You never get tired taking about that person you love when you are in love with your partner. You never stop supporting your parents. You always protect and want to be with your friends. You always want your love partner to be near you. This is a way of showing love but love is something big.
Parent’s love for their children is unconditional. They love them out of their hearts. Their love is just selfless and like an ocean, they love us, never-ending and like a mountain they protect us. Their love starts with the good news of mother getting pregnant. Father get too excited about this news and mother just can express her happiness and anxiety too. They just celebrate, tell everyone and all become happy with the information on the new baby coming. Then mother for 9 months takes care of herself too much so that the child is born healthy and perfect. She takes a lot of pain for the birth of a child and this is what her love for her child is, just inexpressible.
In the initial stages of infancy, parents tenderly hold their baby close in their arms, breathe this new life into their own and experience pure, unadulterated love. Before adulthood of a child, parents promise them a lot of things, get committed to them their whole life. As protector and guide, they develop a deep sense of unconditional love for their little one. We all heard many times from our parents that we grow but for them, we always remain their infant. When their older child tells them an untruth or gets into trouble at home or at school, they may be shocked but deal with it as best they can. Even with a rebellious teen who may not want anything to do with them, they find the balance between dealing with the behaviour and loving their child just the same. Loving unconditionally and with a lifetime of consistency is the key. This is their commitment to their child which is untold but can be seen. Parents commit a better future for their child than theirs. They want to give all the happiness and comfort to their child. They do not get any kind of teaching for this but this comes out of love. The pain that they had seen as a child, they never want their child to feel that, and live those harsh moments.
Where there are commitments you don’t need to do some promises because commitment is much more than a promise. A promise can be made and broken but commitments are done out of hard and this is the speciality of love.
No matter what is thrown at them, or required of them to see, hear, feel, or say, lead with their unconditional love and set the necessary limits to ensure that the message of love always comes shining through. Make it known to themselves and their child from the beginning of their time together until the end of their time together that their unconditional love is something to be counted on.